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See all criticism as positive, since they lead to self-assessment. You will always be free to reject them if they are unfair or not relevant.

When we decide to seriously work towards ourselves to grow, be better, give the best value to our rationale, to be free of imperfections, all that pollution that occurs in our environment and that affects our personality, authenticity , integrity is very important to know how to manage, control and direct our mental energy. Is therefore needed, strengthen our energy, until the thoughts are powerful enough to overcome the desires, emotions and passions, so that the mind and will determine in good conduct harmonious whole.

The mind is an instrument through which to manifest the spirit, because to think we are conscious of ourselves, and about the philosopher Descartes already pointed out: I think therefore I am where in fact, thought, emotion and will, as well as thinking, feeling and acting are without a doubt, the three manifestations of the human spirit.

Mental energy can be compared with the electrical, we only know by their effects, activities or events. It is known that power is diffused through space to a neutral state or latent, unmanifested balance therefore, pending any reason to alter his balance and allow the demonstration. This causes the machine is called dynamo that generates electricity, as is commonly believed, but the current environment attracts, establishing an imbalance that causes its manifestation as current.

Similarly, the space we live in is full of a subtle matter called mental, which vibrates to drive the vibrations of each individual brains, placed in turn in vibration by the activity of spirit, through its body mind. Every time we think we put on vibrate surrounding mental matter, just as the dynamo put into vibration and movement of electricity from the environment. So the brain is a kind of dynamo that vibrates the mental field.

Of course, all this has interested the man, the investigator who tries to explain some phenomena that have been classified as paranormal and the young science of parapsychology has been studying and experimenting in laboratories and centers of prestigious universities, trying to find what is the kind of mental energy that is given.

It also tells us that the vibration of the surrounding mental matter will be of the same intensity, that brain cells put into vibration by the thought and the more energy is vigorous and sustained thought, more intense and lasting the vibration surrounding mental matter. Of course, the vibrations of our energy not only affect the mind-stuff, like an ocean that surrounds us, but all minds with their brains that it is submerged.

Hence the importance of knowing how to manage our energy recommended in favor of achieving good growth, just to interact with persons of high thoughts and rule of law, where a force majeure due to a smaller, we will be influenced and suggestible others' thoughts.

Definitely recommended for better use on the management of emotions, desires and all acts that can damage us. Do not forget that the mental energy for the purity disciplined and strengthened by the knowledge lusts and desires will reject anything that originates all suffering.

When you can control the mental energy and especially knowing good use, to know its scope, impact, then we will be prepared towards achieving good personal and spiritual growth, and discover the great potential that brings us to the importance of self and how relevant it is to know adequately perform the assigned mission in this dimension and how to use that potential energy that has left us.

Personal growth is a lifetime project. It is a long term plan which must be continually looked into. It can be a trail of sad relapse but it can also be positive developments filled with satisfactions. Here are some of the things that you need to know about personal growth.

• We choose to consider our experiences and use it to our personal growth regardless of how good or bad they may be;

• In life, it is desirable to establish the real differences in what surrounds us. We often tend to perceive the effects as if they were the cause or ignore them completely and that gives us a perception that reality is merely a subjective assessment from the point of view of subjectivity;

Look closely at what crosses your mind. Pay attention to what your concerns are and what causes them. Listen to your feelings and ask yourself if your emotions can justify the situation that you are in.

If you can align your thoughts, words and actions then you can make a significant change in your life thus you can turn these simple things to something that will help you grow as a person.

Then begins a process of internal growth in which we become increasingly aware of your responsibility in relation to the quality of life in our environment including the people that surround you. It is not enough that you look into your personal growth but it is also crucial that your growth also does not impede with the growth of others. As you learn to accept these situations as lessons for your development you are able to appreciate the opportunity more and welcome more opportunities that will help you grow more.

Understand that life is a constant learning process and it will help you get a different perspective thus allowing you to adapt to the changes of your life. In this way you can open your life for more opportunities and experiences that will help you grow as a person.

Use the motivation for personal growth rather than fear or incentives. In addition to using positive motivators, remove less motivating things in your life such as policy or bureaucracy will help you a lot.

The most difficult part of the work of a parent or guardian is giving no-good care to children when they are angry. This may arise from feelings of tiredness to the irritation.

It is important to remember that anger is not the same as aggression. Anger is a feeling of temporary state caused by frustration, confusion, sadness, and pain, while aggression is a behavior that sometimes tends to hurt a person or destroy their property.

Moreover, this feeling of anger is transferred on to the child. It confuses the chld on what he or she may have done wrong that could have warranted such an inappropriate punishment or reaction coming from their primary care giver. This leads to the child acting impulsively or in aggression towards their peers and at times being tense and anxious. Similarly you can develop low self-esteem in a child and sometimes lead to depression by suppressing their feelings.

Parents should help and teach their children to manage and /or control their anger and express their feelings, known as emotional literacy, and to help them develop appropriate interpersonal relationships.

Self-control is a learned skill and children during the pre-school learn from watching others, but in their direct learning with the use of rewards and consequences.

1. Ignore inappropriate behavior that cannot be tolerated. Say NO when necessary. The limits of their behavior should be clearly explained.

2. Provide escape areas - physical exercises at home and at school, in order to focus their energy on other activities.

3. Take an interest in the child's activities. The failures and frustrations can often seem minor when children know their parents love and are proud of them for other things that they can achieve.

Those who have friends and relatives who smoke too much, they can possibly convince them that less nicotine that one inhales makes a more favorable impact to your well being as a whole. Also, the doctor will confirm that heart and lung function are much better if you smoke less. But smokers can know from experience: After the first train there is a residual feeling of happiness that it is important to maintain with further use. Therefore, it is already difficult to prove as much self-discipline, specifically to smoke less.

Anyone who has back or neck pain, must be provided with an orthopedic pillow for relief of their pain. The stretching and strengthening of this orthopedic pillow helps the neck and back muscles to relax, thereby decreasing or eliminating pain.

A restful sleep is very important to be healthy and fit. However, anyone who is in pain, normally their sleeping pattern is also affected as a rule of thumb. A special neck pillow can make a difference here. Such pillows are often made of a viscoelastic foam that is particularly well adapted to the body shape and thus it does not bend the spine and neck unnaturally.  Instead it follows the normal curvature. So, there is less pressure points and the spine does not have to bend unnecessarily. Without such a cushion, it can easily lead to tension in the neck, then to back pain and headaches. These orthopedic neck pillow can be bought on the Internet and in stores. They come in different styles and price ranges. Anyone who is unsure should seek advice from a specialist, because there are, for example, cushions, which were designed specifically for side sleepers. As to the pricing differences, a comparison of different offers is also useful.

Who suffers from neck and permanent back pain should also be active during the day. Unilateral work and non-ergonomic postures and equipments used in daily activities can cause this pain. Too little trained muscles may be the cause. Especially people who are on the computer and work with most of the day in a sitting position, often have back and neck pain. Here, strengthening exercises and endurance sports make a huge difference. Also, a regular stretching of the muscles and an extensive routes and the regular change in the seating position are also good options.

Neck rings are also used for body modifications. This tradition is found in Thailand.  Thai women make their daughters to wear it at the age of five. Neck rings help their necks to become long which is the symbol of beauty in Thailand. These rings give enough long look to their necks but they destroy the shape of the shoulders of women. Today these women are only the source of attraction for the tourists but not the paragon of beauty.

Scarification is also very popular tradition that is found in various parts of Africa. They are permanent scars which show the person's social status, age, wealth and sexual desires. These scars are usually found in geometrical shape. They cut their skin to make these shapes and then put ash on these cuts to permanent these scars on their bodies. These marks are found on all the parts of body like face, leg, belly etc.

You may find many friends around you who want to decorate their bodies with tattoos. However, tell them about the pain of scarification and permanent marks that may snub their painful desire.